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last updated by ruby 5 years ago
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  • #1455
    Anonymous
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    I have been going through a lot of frustrations lately as I am in the phase where my parents are head hunting for a groom. ME itni parehsaan aur depress hon becz ppl come and go and do not reply back. I am a graduate in science aur me studies continue krna chahte hon but parents ki pareshani ki waja se ghar bethe hoi hon. Me kya kron?

    #1457
    Mrs. Ali
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    Dear Saba,

    I totally understand what you must be going through. See thing is, in Pakistan mothers dream of their daughters getting married from the day they are born. You can’t blame them as they are simply doing this for your good but what you can do is talk to them. Sit with your parents and tell them what you want. Do not shout, cry or be rude; talk calmly and state that you are feeling bad about yourself now when people reject you and that you want to make your place in this world before you get married.

    Parents are very different people. They may be hard on the outside but at an emotional level they are softer than you think. Talk to them. And remember, Marriage is not everything. You have a right to your life and should do what makes you happy and satisfied. Hope this helps.

    #1576
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Hey,
    Yes I agree. I try doing this… and it works.. Meri ami ne smjha aur unhon ne abo ko convince kya ke mujhey study krne den.. hence.. ab me BSC me hon… you too try.

    #2690
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    ” veri Good ”

    #2803
    ruby
    Participant

    Allah sub ke mushkil assan kary. Ameen.

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